Courage of the Outsider (Part 1)

In this piece, I’d like to explore two movies that portray Outsiders. This is about how effective they can be, and what results when someone steps out of the usual framework and acts according to their own beating drum.

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Why It Took Me Decades to Thank the Man Who Saved My Life

As I hit the soft ocean floor and curl up to go to sleep, I find myself inside a tunnel and like “Alice Through the Looking Glass,” walk on in. Facing me, in a wash of grey silvery light — the light was very, very bright — and twinkles of light racing like fireflies — sits my father in an armchair with a woman standing next to him.

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7 Ways to Apologize and Feel Light as a Feather

Guess what? You’re going to feel so relieved! Stress brought on by conflicts is so great in our hurried, harried, worried world, it wears us down, physically and mentally. Bringing resolution and understanding to our strained relationships renews our inner peace.

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Poem "Advent" from James

In the Christian tradition Advent is a period of 40 days prior to Jesus's birth dedicated to detachment from worldly goods. It is a way to honor to the coming (in Latin "adventus") of Christ and a reminder that we must all surrender this earth.

Horns of judgment blare.
Time dissolves; is everywhere,
bouncing off corner cabinets,
running up your legs,
veiling mirrors.

Catching hold of the edge of
the desk does not break
your fall, nor does the Persian
carpet, nor the floor, nor the
foundation below.

Worlds never seen
blow past like pillowdown.
To breathe you must not struggle,
not even if the pen is still
clutched in your fingers.